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Projection, Passive-Aggression & PC Culture – New Age Bully

When posting things like this on your social media you never know who is viewing…

When we post certain things on Facebook, Twitter, or other social media – I FEEL there’s people who think it’s directed at them. I feel sorry for these people because they don’t understand that we barely know them anymore… They don’t understand that highschool ended at graduation and real life began when we turned 18 (21 in the USA)

For example the people I went to highschool with are still on my Facebook, they’ve watched my child grow, seen everything I’ve shared since school, know my music, fave color, and who I date… But, they don’t REALLY know who “I am” and that’s a common mistake in today’s world of information.

There is a psychological term known as “projecting” and it is LARGELY motivated by shame and guilt #IMO and especially in this context.

Some advice I can give about this phenomenon and mindset (because we all have people in the shadows trying to keep us down) someone you angered or bested at some point in life… There is always that person out there who feigns a smile; but, behind closed doors…

This person spends a large portion of their time discussing lil ole you and we KNOW it 🤣

We all usually have one or more of these people in our lives and they’re typically closer than one would expect.

So, what am I getting at here?

Be careful, people don’t like free thinkers… I bet there’s people look at this post thinking “I bet he means me” – People who don’t even REALLY know you will go behind your back, call you crazy, try to rail road your livelihood, and much more! Some take it so far that they’ll hurt the ones you love just to “get to you”… Then when you call em out, they’ll call you “hateful”, “aggressive”, and/or “intimidating”.

A combination of Passive-aggressiveness and political correctness equates to the new age bully IMO… I’d take being attacked physically over being shamed, slandered, and ridiculed unfairly and unjustly “behind my back”

There needs to be laws against this type of thing, there’s no need for people one doesn’t even effect to have such HATEFUL and RESENTFUL opinions and thoughts towards someone they “envy” or “resent” even if they “hate” the person in question… That is no excuse to slander them and attempt to sway the hearts and minds of others against them.

This is a very COMMON theme in the world today and we see it constantly on social media, on TV shows, even in modern drama and literature… And, it’s gotten so bad it’s corrupted our education systems, politics, medical industry, and much more.

It’s becoming accepted to be sneaky, deceitful, and conniving…
Seemingly gone are the days of honor, respect, and being a “stand-up” person.

Take care of yourself, your family, your wife, your kids, your loved ones, and don’t think for a moment that EVERYONE has your best interest at heart… Because there are many who would gladly put you down in the name of BETTERING their own life.

Thanks,

EhMaritimeSecret

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Many Think $15/Hour Is “Too Much” For Restaurant Staff

Should fast food workers and restaurant staff be paid more than minimum wage? Is $15 an hour too much?

Strangely enough with my life experience, skill set, and work history – I’d say, yes they do!

You can’t even afford an apartment with $15 CAD an hour and minimum wage is only $12 CAD not even.

Personally I find working in a warehouse, on a road crew, or driving truck/operating equipment to be a lot easier...

Especially, when we’re talking stress levels and the crazy amounts of pressure that come along with customer relations and dealing with the general public!


Then again, I’ve seen these other places that are like ant hills, and there’s always a couple people who hold it together; all the while getting no credit and little reward. It’s kinda sad…

These poor souls give their life blood to it and are never rewarded.

Sure half of it’s their own fault and they should move on – but man it’s so crazy that people don’t get recognized. It’s not going to kill one of these master multi-million dollar corporations to give someone a lil something extra.

That’s probably half the reason no one strives at these places, and we can’t get a decent coffee or sandwich.

Things will never be perfect, I just know people can’t live off of the current minimum wage (unless they partner up)
That’s a whole other issue there’s literal toxic relationships EVERYWHERE where the people stay in the abuse simply because it makes “financial sense”

Not everyone can do construction or drive equipment.


And honestly, I find those jobs to be “easier”.

Heck, driving a forklift around a warehouse was the easiest thing I did in my life…

Digging a hole? Hammering a nail? Cake. Dealing with assholes like me… MISERABLE!

I know it’d be pretty depressing if we woke up one day and every single fast food worker was on strike.

Imagine the angry privilege? 😅

Thanks,

EhMaritimeSecret